Why do women make excuses for doing stupid s***?

Ladies help me out. Brothers please let me know something I might be missing.

Ladies you always say how much you want a great man, a positive man, a loyal man, a man who will stand up and be everything that God created us to be. But yet you always go for the a*******, abusers, criminals, thugs and then you complain when s*** goes wrong. Why?

When you have that great man why do you always call him and treat him like a friend? You make him feel less than worthy, you make him seem like he owes you something. A real man knows his worth and knows how to get the job done in the right way. So please don't go asking for help, making excuses and hoping that people will feel sorry for you when in reality you did it to yourself. I'm not talking about all women and even some men are guilty too. I'm referring to the ones who fall into this category.

Ladies in the end and during the long run those ignorant men that you choose will only hurt you and take everything away from you. Learn to have more respect and dignity for yourself.

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Comment by BIIGMANN on June 18, 2013 at 9:45am: Women want control not love

Comment by kwame wilkinson on June 18, 2013 at 7:19am: There is a movie that sums it all up "Diary Of A Tired Blackman". I always recomend it to a lot of people, it realy good.

Comment by Kim Jackson on June 18, 2013 at 5:42am: *WORTH... I hate cellphones, sometimes, causing finger typos...All Good! Even errors bring growth, to admit you made a mistake... Is ok!!

Comment by Kim Jackson on June 18, 2013 at 5:38am: Sorry Brother, but since I was raised, educated, loved and blessed to have real men, as my two Fathers, my Uncles I have to disagree about what makes a "TRUE MAN," because my male mentors and the Bible taught me those type of MEN SIMPLY DO NOT NEED TO PUT OTHERS DOWN, INCLUDING WOMEN... For the strong, positive, uplifting, emotionally, intellectually and psychologically mature MEN, I KNOW are beacons to their family, community and friends, by NOT TOUTING THEIR "So-called manhood," on social media, or by screaming, beating their chest in false male bravado, blaming others for where THEY FALL SHORT... TRUE STRONG MEN, DO NOT need to have verbal, physical or emotional tirades on their women; in social media, on their steroid or substance abusing chests, like a Black Tarzan; or leave empty chairs at tables or young lives where their offspring are eating, learning or yearning!! For true men are humble, kind, communicative, nuturing, strong yet meek to bend a knee to answer a child's small plea; he is not seeking fame through braggart means, and does things without self fame, he knows HIS ACTIONS, SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS! A TRUE MAN, Respects women, since he was BORN FROM ONE, whether GOOD OR BAD, he honors HIS WOMEN WITH LOVE, NUTURING AND DOES NOT JUDGE!! For even that female diamond, you yearn to possess, she once was blackened, assymetrical and looked unworthy from the rest... But, that DIAMOND was once put through tests, but, she STOOD TALK UNDER PRESSURE, and gave it her best! For deep in her facets lied a TRUE MAN,WHO POLISHED, UNTO HER TRUE CLARITY AND WOTH SHOWED CLEAR... But, this polisher knows YOU SEEK HER, NOT FOR LOVE, NUTURE, ONLY PAIN... So, UNTIL YOU, learn the meaning of what a TRUE MAN CONTAINS...You will NEVER POSSESS THAT DIAMOND, because you ARE STILL PLAYING GAMES!!!

Comment by The Future on June 18, 2013 at 12:57am: Women don't what man is they've never been loved by a real man, the security they seek is not in the bums they choose. Sad thing is they don't want to look like fool by leavinv the guy because they really don't want anyone to know they made a stupid chosen. Life is funny when they meet a man a real man they don't even think he would be bothered with them and sell themselves short. Truth be told a real women would never have to look for a real man because we know what a real women looks like. PS after we get through playing with the tricks in the streets and it's time to settle down, we know just where to go to find that real wife.

Comment by derek butler on June 18, 2013 at 12:09am: A lot if women Dont Truely understand what a good Man really is......by the time SOME women
Understand. ....it's late in the game and usually she's carrying MONSTROUS BAGGAGE from her
Prior experiences

Comment by unell mitchell on June 18, 2013 at 12:07am: It's simple people. Men love with our eyes and women love with their ears. Say all the right things she want to hear and you're in .ladies listen long enough and ask the right question and you can avoid the bulshit later.

Comment by Richard S on June 17, 2013 at 11:59pm: Agreed wholeheartedly. I think the good men left should just laugh and let them stew in what they created and just move on cuz if you run back like a little b**** you probably are she will only proceed to hurt you again and again til the end of time. Tick tock.

Comment by Ms. Jayy on June 17, 2013 at 11:35pm: @ Kim, I must disagree. But Ruff de Gehto Travler is right. Everybody feels like that pretty penny is always something great. Until they come with their baggage, problems and giving you unnecessary headaches. But it's always the ones that no one really want that's the good catch!

Comment by Joel Barros on June 17, 2013 at 10:06pm: @kim thug also includes u being a baby mama on welfare and no future cuz that thug ain't got no pension nor a secured future for ur family. Learn to thing ahead not just a head got it lol. Time to better ourselves and stop settling for trash