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Why do women make excuses for doing stupid s***?

Ladies help me out. Brothers please let me know something I might be missing.

Ladies you always say how much you want a great man, a positive man, a loyal man, a man who will stand up and be everything that God created us to be. But yet you always go for the a*******, abusers, criminals, thugs and then you complain when s*** goes wrong. Why?

When you have that great man why do you always call him and treat him like a friend? You make him feel less than worthy, you make him seem like he owes you something. A real man knows his worth and knows how to get the job done in the right way. So please don't go asking for help, making excuses and hoping that people will feel sorry for you when in reality you did it to yourself. I'm not talking about all women and even some men are guilty too. I'm referring to the ones who fall into this category.

Ladies in the end and during the long run those ignorant men that you choose will only hurt you and take everything away from you. Learn to have more respect and dignity for yourself.

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Comment by mr1stroke on June 18, 2013 at 9:58pm

@Tall Island relationship needs time and attention right now i cannot promise that and i wont lie to no one and i wont listen to no one telling me she will be okay when i have to leave and not back for weeks or never home, most women will sing that song that it is okay at first and than they go crazy and start crying well you never around, i will not end up like those dudes, so until i settle my business and base in one place, ill keep riding

Comment by Ruff de Gehto Travler on June 18, 2013 at 2:44pm

@ Big woman thank you very much !!!! actually I did get the big piece of chicken !!!! I went to work!!! LMAO!!

ur wisdom speaks volumes!!!!! Blessed

Comment by Chisel Lean on June 18, 2013 at 2:35pm

I think a lot of times it's what you have access to/exposed to. That is what you become comfortable with. This cat I used to roll with back in my foolish years said this about this girl that he used to smack around.... He said that she was "Used to the abuse" meaning if he ASKED her to do something she might just ignore him. If he smacked a filet of flesh off her face she would respond right away... I never understood it, and I didn't sponsor it but I saw what he meant. We need to set better standards for our future.... Clayon Buzz's picture is worth a 1,000 words. If you speak properly to a cornish chicken head, lolol "they be like who he think he iz?" I like a woman who can articulate, but can also bless you out if you get fresh with Women are smart and strong but sometimes the emotional side can take over. Bottom line is, know your worth

Comment by Big Woman on June 18, 2013 at 1:47pm
Hey @Ruff! hope you had a great Father's Day!
Yes, people try to change one another.Waste of time, my mom use to say 'you can't make a sow's(pig) ear into a silk purse' It's hard enough trying to change myself for the better!
What you see is what you get, your love ain't no magic wand that's gonna change people. Some of us watch too much tv or movies thinking that those relationships we see are real.I'll say it again media influences so much of what we think is real and its not!
Comment by derek butler on June 18, 2013 at 1:46pm
YES BIG WOMAN!......;)
Comment by Ruff de Gehto Travler on June 18, 2013 at 1:29pm

@Bigwoman real talk !!!! But whats crazy to me is when the partner tries to turn you into what they want you to be and that is not who you are for example if the woman was using the microwave brfore you got married and bought fast food and showed no desire in cooking why in the world would you believe she would automaticaly start cooking cause ya married( not saying there are not some who do try)

Comment by Big Woman on June 18, 2013 at 1:22pm
There are two kinds of men those who love women or those who hate women.There are two kinds of women those who love men or those who hate men. The category you fall in will influence what kind of relationship you will attract. A lot of us wouldn't know a good man or woman if we met one.You have to do a lot of work on yourself in order to improve your picking skills.Talk to your pastor, seek out a therapist if you keep making the same mistakes.Read self help books on how to develop healthy relationships.
Self assessment is hard, its easier to blame the other person for the problems in the relationship.But remember you chose that person.A lot of us are comfortable with the crazy cause we love the drama including me.
Healthy may appear boring, thats why thugs hold so much appeal! Lol!
But for the long run drama is safer on TV not in our lives.
Comment by Clayon Buzz on June 18, 2013 at 1:00pm

Comment by mr1stroke on June 18, 2013 at 11:58am

that is in their norm, they do dumb s*** everyday and always blaming someone else and when you do tell them about it they call it woman bashing they are as dumb as they come, tell a woman not to talk to a man who is bad for her she will talk to him either to prove you wrong or thinking she can change him, and we she get burn she will cry she didnt know or he is the worse person like duh you damn donkey, this is why women are going through so much and it will never stop, they pass everything to the next generation, how long we have been living on this earth women are making the same mistakes generations after generations, now its even worse they are f****** each other, like they are cute, yall done its over for the women race, theres no more respect for yall

Comment by derek butler on June 18, 2013 at 10:59am
@ Kim. ...I agree and disagree!
SOME women have this idea in their head that a Strong Black man Should allow women to DO and Say whatever she wants and get a Free Pass! .....Some think A Man Should respect his Woman NO MATTER WHAT!
SOME think a Man Should not VOICE his opinion on SOME OF THESE RAGGEDY WOMEN out here!
Just because he came from a Woman does NOT MEAN he should be silent and respect a Woman who does NOT Deserve Respect...That's a CHILD. .not A MAN!
P.S. and you just used social media to talk down to Some Men and in the same Breath said MEN shouldn't do it
I have no problem with that cause you should
Have your own opinions BUT so should Men

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