Rihanna Blames Her Freaky Sexual Behavior On Witnessing Abuse As A Kid/Rihanna About Bedroom Antics For 'Rolling Stone': ''I Like Being Tied Up And Spanked'' [VIDEO]

Rihanna is one of those women who would be comfortable labeling themselves a "freak."

The singing star toyed with a few sexual themes on past albums, but on her latest effort 'Loud' she lets it all loose.

The song "S&M" and the accompanying video show viewers some of RiRi's real life sexual fantasies.

“Being submissive in the bedroom is really fun. You get to be a little lady, to have somebody be macho and in charge of your sh*t. That’s fun to me…I like to be spanked. Being tied up is fun. I like to keep it spontaneous. Sometimes whips and chains can be overly planned – you gotta stop, get the whip from the drawer downstairs. I’d rather have him use his hands," Rihanna recently told Rolling Stone.

The sad part is she believes her masochistic side stems from witnessing abuse as a child.

“I think I’m a bit masochistic. I love feeling like I’m somebody’s girl. I think that is common in people who witnessed abuse in their childhood," she said.

What do you guys think, is Rihanna's freaky behavior a result of childhood drama or is she just a very freaky girl?

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Rihanna opens up about a lit bit of everything in her Rolling Stone interview. The superstar speaks on her decision to ease the restraining order against Chris Brown, a memorable slap in the face by her father, and that her hit song 'S&M' was not only just a fun video but more of a portrait of her own sex life.

'I love feeling like I'm somebody's girl,' she tells Rolling Stone. 'I love to be tied up and spanked.'

Rihanna in her ''S&M'' Video

The 23-year-old says that the single is semi-autobiographical, but says the lyrics 'Whips and chains excite me' doesn't quite work for her.

She adds: 'Using whips and chains is too planned... you have to stop and look for the whip. I prefer them to use their hands.'

'I like to take the reins in my life, but I enjoy being submissive in the bedroom. In there I can be a little lady and have a male who has responsibility for the situation. That's sexy.'

She partly blames her "masochistic" streak on the abuse she witnessed as a child.

When asked if her father was ever abusive toward her, Rihanna admitted to being hit "once" during a beach outing when she was seven.

"He slapped me so hard," she says. "I ran home with his handprint on me. I couldn't believe it. My mother saw my face, how traumatized I was. You know how, when you know you did something wrong, and you deserve to get beat? This was out of nowhere."

The singer also says that as a take-charge entertainer, she likes it when a man takes charge in bed.

Asked if she was dating anybody now, Rihanna replied no and added, "I'm not even sexting."

Rihanna, 23, became the poster girl for battered girlfriends everywhere two years ago when then-boyfriend - R & B singer Chris Brown - beat her up during a pre-Grammy Awards hellride through Hollywood.

"I hate that my business is out there," she says. "But at the same time, if the media had never found out about certain situations, I would still be in them."

The sultry songbird's public discussion of her private sexual preferences comes a week after Brown was forced to apologize for storming off the set at ABC's "Good Morning America."

Rihanna, who recently agreed to ease the restraining order against her ex-boyfriend, said she hasn't heard from Brown in a long time - and is fine with that.

Rihanna says she hasn’t heard from Chris Brown: “We don’t have to talk again ever in my life.” She says she agreed to lift the restraining order because she didn’t want to negatively affect Brown’s career. “Saying he has to be a hundred feet away from me, he can’t perform at awards shows — that definitely made it difficult for him.”

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Comment by Myra J Fontenelle on April 23, 2011 at 12:43pm: i think Rihannna has more than taken her fair share of bashing and fame from all of us ...i tink its time we call this blog quits shes not worth it she aint gonna read it although i wish she would it would be an instant wake up call for her. we all have choices in life to make and the ones we make will follow us for the rest of our lives, dont make excuses for things you could control in this world there is no room for excuses, i have my own faults we all do i get oportuinites but i choose which ones to accept... RiRi u not a baby anymore damn it wake up its nothing personal i just dont like the road u going down and again for the RiRi fans if you read this blog u will realize that the comments are not only comming from young women but young men as well who dont support how u living...hey it aint my business but guess what its out there for the world to see..i think u can at least choose your clothing in your videos u have that much right and even when u performing live dont let people compare you to others who were there before you ask your self a question y dont you hear stuff about avril lavinge ..alisha keys keri hilson and ciera tthey were all there B4 u but they still maintain their standard and again to the RiRi fans who may wanna pick me up and deffend her you already know what ima say ;) peace out folks until next time

Comment by Babes Lovely Miller on April 14, 2011 at 6:52pm: @sweetness sacrifice Chris brown? @James lol okay

Comment by James Anderson on April 14, 2011 at 11:57am: @ ALL COMMMENTS.......I THINK YOU ALL HAVE MADE GREAT POINTS....I REALLY ENJOY A SPIRITED DEBATE......NOW ON TO RIRI.....THIS CHICK HAS TRULY LOST HER MIND.....SHE DEFINETLY SOLD HER SOUL ON THIS ONE!!!! AND YES, WHEN THE WHOLE "SEX" THING DRIES UP (WHICH IT SEEMS IT HAS BY HER RECENT TICKET SALES) SHE IS GOING TO FALL HARD AND PROBABLY DISGRACEFULLY....YOU KNOW THEY DONT CARE NOTHING ABOUT YOU ONCE YOU DONT MAKE MONEY ANYMORE!!! SO ITS TRULY A SAD SITUATION.

WHATS HAPPENING @SWEETNESS.....MISS YOUR COMMENTS.....GREAT STUFF!!!

OH YEA...AND WHATS UP @BABES........ROTFLMAO......JUST HAD TO DO THAT ONE MORE TIME FOR YA....LOL

Comment by evolution on April 14, 2011 at 8:03am: @Babes Miller & sweetness Rihanna is my country girl,and I don't support her.If she was bring out the Barbadian culture in her behavior and not the American slutty one maybe.I can't in good conscience support her, and her derogatory antics as an Island man....NO.I will do no such thing and pray for her either,she went to school at Combermere an Ivey league school that produce leaders like the late MR.DAVID THOMPSON prime minister of Barbados among many others,so to me she's a disgrace.

Comment by Babes Lovely Miller on April 13, 2011 at 9:42pm: Well said @evolution.... am not wishing anything bad to happen to her.... but eventually she's gonna self-destruct.. once she can't sell sex anymore I wonder what she's gonna do....

@sweetness yea she did that.. and I heard that u have to scarifice someone close to u {family member/close friend} in favor of the contract..

Am so glad that where I grew up the only religion that was taught is Christianity... WORSHIPPING GOD IS THE ONLY WAY TO HAVE ETERNAL LIFE AND EVENTUALLY EVERYONE WILL KNOW...

Comment by Babes Lovely Miller on April 13, 2011 at 9:33pm: @evolution thank u... as u said I'm never bias about any statements I make ...... I always say whats now my mind even if its not what people r used to r wanna hear...

I can't understand people.... how r they gonna judge me for giving my opinion while defending Rihanna like she's righteous.......smh!!

@Patricia i know that I don't have to use filthy words to get my words across but have u been listening to rihanna songs or even watching her videos for the pass two yrs? I guess not!!!! You keep address my opinions but not her actions..

I understand where ur coming from Patricia..am the type of person once someone rubs me the wrong way, I get so defensive even when its over...Anyways continue praying for ur girl Rihanna hope she will retain herself soon..

Comment by evolution on April 13, 2011 at 9:26pm: @patricia grahamI follow what you're saying,this girl is something else.She lied about her parents,that was the first sacrifice she made to the devil.Rihanna comes from a middle class family like me,and she have I think, two or four brothers,if she was being abused as she said, someone would have known.It's very hard to keep something like that secret/silent in Barbados trust me.I hope that when the devil comes to collect his soul, that she's ready to pay up.

Comment by BigginsMarie on April 13, 2011 at 9:09pm: I agree totally about Anna Nicole. I wouldn't wish what happened to her on anybody, not even Rhianna. I think she did marry that old man for his money, she probably thought she was getting over lovely. But in the end her son dies and she's so whacked out and depressed over it, she kills herself.

Thank God that little girl of hers went to that good looking guy, instead of that evil ass Jew guy. But with the industry you never know, that good looking guy might be a devil too...

Comment by patricia graham on April 13, 2011 at 7:37pm: Babes Miller...I do think that Rihanna is heading down the wrong road and that's why I'm praying for her, but you don't have to use filthy words to get your point across. You need to read my blogs again. Anna Nicole was a model who married a very old billionaire. Was it love or opportunity...only she knew. We do know that she was also use by this same industry. Did she deserve to die like that? Of course not and nobody deserves what they did to her. Now, can you see why Rihanna needs a whole attitude adjustment before she ends up like her?

Babes Miller...If I offended you, then I'm very sorry as that was not my intention, but as ladies we don't need to behave like that.

Evolution...The only person to whom Rihanna is giving a bad name, is herself. You cannot stigmatise a whole country by the actions of one person. There's good and bad in every nation.

Comment by evolution on April 13, 2011 at 12:15pm: @Babes Miller I will not defend this girl,she giving my country a bad name,she just as bad as the government.The reason I suspect that anyone would question your comments is that they might see you a little Bias.What I see is not being Bias but calling it as it is.