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Despite Stereotypes, Women Are Just As Likely To Cheat As Men. Do you agree?

It's in our DNA to be monogamous, as well as non-monogamous.

We hear it all the time, guys cheating on their girlfriends. Men are scum, they only think with their member. There are countless girl power anthems about kicking your scrub boyfriend to the curb, but recently scientists beg to differ that it's just a male issue. They studied the mating habits of monkeys and came up with proof that all humans used to be non-monogamous. When men and women evolved into monogamous species, they did it at the same time, proving that men and women are not wired differently. 

For the sake of mankind, men and women evolved to be monogamous so they could raise the children together and the men would protect their own.

In case that's not shocking enough, recent studies say that women are even more likely to cheat than men. Interesting!

Do you think men and women are more monogamous or non-monogamous?

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Comment by mr1stroke on October 4, 2013 at 4:20pm

Mz. Nini  lol well i do date single women or perhaps women with boy friends, but with single women sometimes they just want too much and always in a rush where a man like me will not submit, i dont even care if shes doing more than me, i have to make sure im ready and that person is worth my commitment, with someone who is already attach this is not the case, she will not be calling in every minutes of the hour, asking where am in, when am i coming, if she does she will have to sneak the call in, unless she out the house or at work, so that life style is so much easier for me, i have to find someone who sees like the way i see it, have the same goals , lets not wait for tomorrow lets work hard and make the neccesary sacrifices to day so we can have a better tomorrow, lets take time to know each other be friends and make sure we are compatible in every way, once we have all that in common we can consider a committed relationship, otherwise as soon as see that a woman is a rush for relationship it raise a red flag i jump ship real quick that is many relationship dont last that woman dont need commitment because of love it usually be a reason that benefits her but not us, the most common reasons out there are either she is getting too old, or she wants to be married and get a ring usually for the benefits or just to show, or she sees opportunity in a man she rather keeps around even if she does not know him, and that dont work for me, so married women are more fun specially those who can get away from their husbands again dont judge me im just living they Karma is a b**** but if you have conscience and reason for your action and learn from your action you can escape the heavy mistakes

Comment by Mz. Nini on October 4, 2013 at 4:03pm

You are right that some women live off of hope.  I will not call it weak or desperation -- it is a way of feeling accepted or appreciated.  There is nothing wrong with hope if an open opportunity exists. Though you may be helping, some women go back to their man with mixed emotion and may even compare you to their man.  Sex is so free, and vagina a given by the doze, thus I am quite sure you can get any vagina instead of that of taken women. But if they are giving it, I can not blame you!  I just know personally that game comes with hidden emotions and stages of confusions -- Your heart goes out for your man, but your passion goes out for another. If I still lived that lifestyle I would have viewed it your way,  but now my eyes are closed to certain behaviors. Still admire your game plan!

Comment by mr1stroke on October 4, 2013 at 12:10pm

@Ruff lol why you always trying to get me in trouble 

Comment by mr1stroke on October 4, 2013 at 12:09pm

@Kcrunchone you are right and the biggest issue is sex, if a couple is not sexually comfortable i dont care what they do they will be problems, specially if they have it all materially, the more comfortable they are the more someone is going to step out and fulfill the needs, i know women who buys toys to substitute in what the man is not doing, the more they try the more they step out to experience it with a real person, and forget when they have a friend who has someone who is breaking her back and telling each other about it in all girls night out, this is a bog problem, that woman will be more curious than ever until she finds what she wants and that man will have more problem than ever and same goes for a man who steps out when he find that woman who hold no bars, she swallows, she is tight, she takes it any where, she is a problem to any womans relationship

Comment by mr1stroke on October 4, 2013 at 12:04pm

@Mz Nini lol i think Mr feel good is about right but yes you right no matter what it is not right to step out thats why i always advise them to work things out, even offer women to use me as an example, and i always tell them im bad news, do remember those women the more you push them away the more they will not and start to catch feelings with a man like me they no there will be no future for them, but most women lives off hope, i call it weak, but i am not the bad guy im just being happy just like they are trying to be happy, i was once in a relationship with my baby mom, i even wen to therapy not to cheat, because thats not what im all about, so now that i am not committed life is a gift that must be appreciate in what ever way we choose, so that is my way of smiling having fun just like others find ways to smile, but should i find a relationship i will go for and do what ever i have to just to keep strong since i believe ive leaned enough and still learning

Comment by Ruff de Gehto Travler on October 4, 2013 at 8:40am

The Art of a woman flip dat !!! I'l get the cliff notes from 1stroke that's book is way too long !!! Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Comment by kcrunchone on October 3, 2013 at 9:20pm

Both can and will be products of their environment, by that I mean if he or she feels that they are not receiving the love or respect that they deserve and start getting from another then there is always the possibility that the cheating will begin. Learn one another sexually and mentally and you can kindd of put your worries at ease. If you are afraid to be a lil freaky or let the wild side show or explore with you partner you will surely lose them to someone that will.

Comment by Mz. Nini on October 3, 2013 at 8:58pm

Thank you Mr.1.  You stressed some good concerns, like you treat her how she treats herself and if she dips on her man, how can you trust her.  Those are so true.  So I guess you are Mr. Feel Good. lol  Most lady have to be to their breaking point in order to cheat, because we are more nurturing, consoling, etc.  I respect your game because we all need to feel loved and appreciate from time to time, however, going outside the relationship for that treatment is not right - not saying you are the bad one, simply speaking of any1 that finds the means to cheat.

Comment by mr1stroke on October 3, 2013 at 5:28pm

@Mz Nini i live life by experience thats what makes a man , when i interact with a woman remember it can start in a friendly conversation or just being friends so i would treat the woman as she treats her self, if she tries everything and the man ignores her, that is a good woman who just wants to feel like a woman and i cant blame her, so i would deal with that woman by fulfilling the attention she may needs on the same note i always advise that woman to find a way to work things out because no matter what i cannot offer all she wants because i will not make her my woman, if she cheats on him she will cheat on me too since its already in the blood and and easy way out, now the other kind of woman is the one who feels the grass is greener on teh other side soon theres an argument they run to the next dudes that one i dont respect so i just sleep with them and go, but one thing i will not do for a woman is pay any bills while she has a man at home, if im paying the bills than im taking care of him, a woman has to know when you pick a man and make him your man know the role of a man, and if you do ask your self what do you have at home, so the answer to your question im just living my life and also guide who ever im with in the right way i cannot be selfish i hope to be committed one day if it does exist

Comment by Mz. Nini on October 3, 2013 at 1:14pm

Love that point Mr. Fix.  Most men do not and have not studied the art of women; but then again, that goes vice versa. I love to hear when men have and show respect for all Nubian Princesses.

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