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Black, Beautiful and Bullied: They Laughed at Her For Being too Dark

Black, Beautiful and Bullied: They Laughed at Her For Being too Dark

Beauty the saying goes is in the eye of the beholder. And many of the kids who saw Khoudia Diop saw only her skin color which they considered too dark.  Diop says all her life, she grew up having people bully her and laugh at her because of skin color; “I was picked on by other kids, when I was a bit younger because [of the darkness] of my skin tone…”  Diop continues saying, “this is something that is actually quite normal in Senegal. It’s not a nice feeling…” 

Diop like so many of us had to put up with childhood taunts about our color, our hair, our weight or some other physical characteristic that others find unacceptable.

dark-skin-model-melanin-goddess-khoudia-diop-8The 19 year old Senegalese woman now lives in Paris and has used the hurtful remarks of others to launch a career in the modeling world.  The feature that so many find laughable has made her bankable in an industry that is always looking for new ways to redefine beauty.  Diop says she started modeling two years ago after spending years of learning how to deal with all the negativity about her appearance.  Instead of running and hiding from her taunters, Diop looked deep inside to find her true beauty and courage, “As I grew, I learned to love myself more every day, and not pay attention to the negative people. I’ve learned to ignore the negative people and just be a living example of confidence and self-love. I let my life, and success, speak for itself,” Diop is not just overcoming the trauma caused by bullying, but she is helping others to cope with similar situations by working with the group The Colored screenshot-1085Girl, Inc. to celebrate women of all colors and backgrounds. Diop says one of her life goals is to “make all my darkskinned sisters out there laugh at those mf with their “beauty standards” they’re nobody  noooobody to tell you how you should look.”  She’s getting her message out there one follower at a time…Diop’s already amassed about 235,000 fans on IG alone.  It’s still difficult.There are days when she finds herself still bullied online and  all the haunting memories of childhood nicknames like “darky” and “daughter of the night” come rushing back.  But Diop confronts old bullying memories of horrible nicknames by renaming herself “Melanin Goddess” as a self-proclamation that she will not be limited by the narrow minds of others.

Some will want to dismiss the bullying that Diop suffered as a child as “just kids being kids” and that children don’t know any better.  Then as parents, we are responsible for what we teach them and if our kids don’t know better then it might be because we as parents failed to teach them better. Black women, and some men, sometimes end up believing the words of others and hate themselves so much they cause irreversible damage by trying skin bleaching and lightening products.  Just surf the net and you can find endless stories of Black, Latino and White kids being targeted by bullies to the point that children become depressed and sometimes want to die to escape it all.

Diop found the strength to overcome the words of others and embrace her beauty.  She encourages dark-skin-model-melanin-goddess-khoudia-diop-2others who may be in similar situations of being bullied for their skin color, hair, weight or whatever not to let others make you feel less beautiful, capable or smart.  Diop says instead, “If you’re lucky enough to be different, don’t ever change”.

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Comment by caribbeanrose on October 31, 2016 at 3:49pm
She is beautiful
Comment by conscious1 on October 31, 2016 at 2:05pm

Very Beautiful!!!!

Comment by Kevin Reynolds on October 31, 2016 at 12:31pm

Love it!

Comment by gina gene on October 31, 2016 at 5:39am
No make up no filters,just naturally beautiiiifulllll! Glowing skin
Comment by Kyra-Lee Marie Wilson on October 30, 2016 at 9:52pm
Wow She Is Beautiful
Comment by AfricanGoddess on October 30, 2016 at 4:17pm

Mi nuh care what society say,black people skin colors are beautiful to me!
Her color is breathtakingly beautiful,almost purple... reminds me of a real life painted black doll.

The beauty of black people is the fact that our coloring run the gamut,we represent all the spectrum,encompassing the darkest of hue to the lightest and all the varieties in between... we are the rainbow nation!

"But Diop confronts old bullying memories of horrible nicknames by renaming herself “Melanin Goddess” as a self-proclamation that she will not be limited by the narrow minds of others."

Dope,you sure are! You are winning with your attitude,go ahead with your badass self Melanin Goddess!

The colonization of Senegal have left them with the same colorism too.

Sidenote: Many African American/Black american Ancestors came from Senegal!

Comment by Mervin E Yearwood on October 29, 2016 at 12:40pm

Dark and lovely the ultimate gift from the Ancestors

Comment by Mr. Johnson on October 29, 2016 at 9:44am
The Queen is absolutely beautiful.
Comment by Lu on October 28, 2016 at 10:38pm

Sweet sister, keep staying strong. That's Y they're MAD!!!

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